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A MEETING WITH GOD

Once a little girl was very curious to meet god. She has always heard that god loves children alot so she was sure that god would definitely meet her. So she decided to set towards the journey to meet god. Since she knew that the journey was long so she packed her bag putting in some choco pies and fruit juice. She said bye to her mom and set towards her journey.
In her way, she found an old man sitting all alone in a garden and staring at the birds around. He was seeming as he was very upset and tired with his life. The girl got near and sat next to him. The girl felt thirsty so she opened her bag and decided to drink the fruit juice. But suddenly she noticed that the old man was feeling hungry, so she offered him fruit juice. the old man accepted it and after drinking gave her a beautiful smile. The girl was completely moved by his smile as if the whole world was filled with happiness. The girl wanted to see him smiling again so she offered him a piece of choco pie. The old man again accepted it and again gave a beautiful smile to her. His smile was full of calmness and love. The girl didn't moved anywhere and they both spent their entire day sitting there, eating and drinking. But none of them spoke a single word.


As the dawn was about to happen, the girl realised that it was the time to go. So she packed her bag and got up to leave. Before she had gone a few more steps, she turned back to the old man, ran to him and gave him a hug. The old man gave her the biggest smile ever that was full of affection. The girl was delighted by it.
When she reached her house and opened the door, her mother asked her, "What did you do today that made you so happy?". The little girl replied,"Today I had lunch with god". Before her mother could ask anything more, the girl added,"You know what mom, he had got the most beautiful smile I have ever seen."
The same way,the old man, full of joy, returned to his home.His son was stupefied by seeing the peace and joy at his father's face.He asked him, "Papa,what did you do today that made you so happy and gave you so much peace?" The old man replied calmly,"Today I ate choco pie in the park with God." But before his son could say anything more, he added, "You know, she is much younger than I expected."



So, the aim of telling this story was that "God is everywhere. We just need to share our happiness with others to make them smile and to feel him."
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DARK NIGHTS OF THE SOUL

The life has both the bright and dark sides. When life enters into a tunnel, its not only the darkness but the fear of being darker. Each one of us is suffering by our own destiny. Stucked into the mid of the tunnel, we are not able to find a single ray of light. Slowly and steadily we slip into the hole of confusion where our fear and pain overshadows us. It marks hard to live the life and many chooses the path of death…that many of us take. But the truth is that daily we are living a death, it is not the final stage but we face it daily. Staying alive is not enough. The ego of ours cuts our life layer by layer and we die daily even before actually leaving this earth and proving our immortality. We travel from hell to heaven, move likes ashes around and have no existence even when we really exist. There it feels like we are breathing in a completely different air, where every touch is much different.


But is it? Are we really leading a life? No, we are just spending time and not living it. Happiness is all about spending each moment as its your last and living it to its fullest. The dark nights of the soul search for the stars to fall so that they could make a wish. The wish may or may not get fulfilled but its failure traps us deep into the darker parts. The journey of dark night of the soul is where we learn who we are, without other people telling us. Not to want something that you want is impossible. Try to cross the tunnel to see its brighter side. The dark nights are the period of transformation of our self from the one that has been away to the one that we want to be. Sometimes to heal the wound, we have to travel into the dark night of the soul. Those who face the dark night of the soul unveil the truth that others don't understand.

Only those who are willing to walk through the dark nights will be able to see the beauty of the moon and the brilliance of the stars.
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Dear Zindagi




When we enter this world, we see many people around us but we don't know anyone. The one who is born cries and everyone else present there laughs. I still did't understood why we cry when we are born. Let's let it go. So, what is 'zindagi'. Is it about achieving aims or or just letting it to go with the flow or about living for others or for self. It is what you take it to be. Actually I think its about everything, The combination of all these is what called as 'zindagi'.

Time goes on passing and we just spend it and don't live it.If someone would suddenly ask me what was the last time when I really expressed my feelings or when I cried when I felt to cry or when I laughed?? all these questions strike through my mind and my heart.

Sometimes we are not able to show what we are really feeling but the bad part is that we are just judged by our behaviour. But is it right to judge someone just based on his behaviour because it might be possible that at that time the person might be in some personal problem or something else. 

Life is uncertain. Sometimes things get screwed up. While many of us are struggling to achieve our dreams, there are so many who are yet to find it. Some are not able to find it in their entire life and some get to know it at very early stage of their life. On our failure or some problem, we feel ashamed to cry because we think that others will make fun of us, but did those others ever come to wipe your tears or to ask you from what are you suffering, then why not to express fully what we are feeling, why not to cry when we feel to so that we could also smile to its fullest.


Life is not always easy but we should cry when you want to and should laugh when you need to.When all the nights get darker, a single ray of sunshine can enlighten your path. Many times we are unable to find answers to many of our questions and we start to think that we are not capable of but the truth is that we should have enough patience to search for those answers. Zindagi is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent is how you respond to it. The steps of the journey might be difficult but we should not feel disheartened because the view from the top will be very beautiful. We all are here for a purpose, we should atleast give our best to achieve that. You cannot get everything at the same time, so its better to be at a place and enjoy its beauty rather than thinking about those things or those places that you can't get at that time.

We are always confused about everything like whom to make friends, which course to go for ,which job to opt and the most important is to select your life partner. We should stop for a while and think about what you really want because "you are the teacher of your own school of life".
When it comes to select a path that will lead us to our dream or goal and if that path is too difficult and we are not ready to face those difficulties then its better to choose the easy path because one day that path will take you to your dreams.
Don't let the past to blackmail your present to ruin your future.
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WHERE WE INDIANS ARE HEADING??


In today’s Indian society, if a girl wears short skirts then she is assumed to be shameless. A 6 inches gap between blouse and petticoat is termed as a traditional wear but a 2 inches gap between top and trouser is termed as shameless. After more than 60 years of Independence, is this the way  where we are proceeding?

I think we should have a clear view of the norms of “great civilization” that our society perceives and  what it really is.
Many of us don’t know the fact that during the age of Lord Krishna, the gopis’ used to bath naked in  Yamuna river as it was not regarded as undisguised. In today’s era, if even if an actress has to wear a  bikini for a shoot, then it becomes a breaking news. A common girl can’t even think of wearing a  shorts and skirts, otherwise she will be regarded as inviting the devils to rape her.
Another huge word - Virginity and Premarital Sex. If anyone around you talks about these words, our  first thought would be, ”how shameless is he”.  But why, is talking about that thing in day that  everyone does at night is nauseous.The rishi Ved Vyas who has written Mahabharata was born by the  premarital sex between Rishi Parashar and Satyavati, who later married King Shantanu.
In some castes, I am using “castes” here because we the Indians are still bounded by this debris. In  some parts of India, there is a traditional of having marriages among cousins. This means suddenly  your first cousin might become your husband or your wife. Suddenly, all the relationships get  messed up. This trend was not followed and was opposed in ancient times.
A well known example of Draupadi who had 5 husbands and Padu who had 2 wives was not considered as a distress. But at today’s time, it is not followed. I am not saying that this  was right at  their part, but it is a fact that if a woman has her second marriage due to any   reason, then she has to  face the cruel and scorn behaviour of the society and this is not same with men. If a man have his  second marriage , then also the girl is blamed for that.
Lets talk about Intercaste Marriage. Now this is something that has become the reason of many  deaths of lovers. In India, intercaste marriage is considered a crime and if someone does it, then  either they are killed  or are boycotted by the family and society. While if we talk about ancient time,at  that time Intercaste  marriages has happened. King Shantanu who was a Kshatariya married a  fisherman’s daughter Satyavati.



A new trend of Kundali matching, which people thing would flourish the marriage, actually completely destroys it. Having marriage with a person whom you like or with person with whom your kundli matches.  What would you select? In ancient time, marriages were not held based upon kundlis still they werwere very  successful. Lord Ram married Sita just by breaking the arrow and not by matching Kundlis.

Love marriage and arrange marriage, this is something which is really a cause to be discussed and  understood. Our today’s society is considered to be modern and civilised. But still many lovers are  killed or boycotted by their families and society. Love marriage is considered to be a sin and a  shameful act. Arrange marriages are regarded as good because it is done within the so-called “castes” by the parents. What really matters for you, that you are marrying a person of your caste, or  you are marrying a person with whom you will always live a happy life whether he or she is of your  caste or not?



God gives birth to everyone as a special individual without imprinting the label of a specific caste onto his  body. So if god has not created any difference then who are we to divide his children into castes? And the  most shocking thing is that the girl has to change her surname after marriage it means she does not have  here personal existence. Before marriage she is known by her father’s name and after marriage by his  husband’s name , so where does she exists as an individual,There are lot more things that are really shameful and are needed to be changed. But we have to start from one thing if we really want to mark ourselves as modern and civilized.
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