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Being Casual

You would never realize how suddenly being casual will make you involved in so many literal things that they will become an important part of your life. Being casual simply doesn't mean that you don't realize the importance of other things, but it seems you are not attached enough that if won't affect you if you let them go. But I think the one who looks casual is the one who is more emotional.
You take your thoughts to be casual, you ignore your feelings your emotions, you try to look cool in front of other, but deep inside you know that its not you. You are in a race with yourself to find the real you. You try to be apart from others, being attached but not emotionally, a state of being "detached". You tempt to do this and also succeed for a while, but then everything just comes back. You try to fall apart from it, but it keeps on chasing you. The more you run away from it, the more it comes near to you. You try to resist it by your casual nature, but it keeps on coming to you. It tries to control you completely until it consumes you. Your casual nature then rests in a side and let to go the way it is taking you. You just stay awake to see the path you are going to. You still try to resist somewhat, because there is a feeling of insecurity and self-doubt inside you that should you resist or shouldn't you?

You travel along with it and realize that it had somewhat made you channelized, focus, and you finally accept the acquiescence. It will not leave you, which means its meant to stay.

Your casual attitude will be there somewhere dumped in one corner of your heart and now you will be a changed person. Once an idea will find home in your mind, it will not leave it until it will consume it completely.


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Lipstick Under My Burkha

So is the coverage of body necessary only for girls. I mean seriously just think of those girls who buy costly beauty products and they have to hide it under burkha....well well well..it was just a joke.

Being a girl, I can understand it easily that how difficult it is being restricted for all the things that boys are never told to stop. Its not just with the young girls, it for all girls, ladies and aunties. Like if a lady is widow, then she is not allowed to use any beauty products or even make herself neat and tidy and if she wishes to do so, then she is called with cheap names like slut etc. But why, when someone's wife dies, does the male is told not to get his hairs trimmed or not to do shave, then why all the restrictions with girls.


The only thing that interests people is the type of clothes girls wear. Oh my god, she is wearing shorts, she is a slut..oohh she is wearing jeans, she is not of good character. Is the type of clothes a girl wear are enough to decide her character. And most important, who are others to give their views on a girl’s character, Why can’t people just do their own work, why they always want to interfere in other’s life.

Talking about sex, not the gender, the intimacy that is sex. If your wife is not ready to get intimate with you, then you have no right to force her. It is nothing less than rape if you force yourself on her.

Getting married doesn't mean that you have got a slut with whom you can have rape anytime and that is too "legal rape."

You should love her and not molest her. Touch her with love and not with the aim to just put your dick inside her pussy.

And what about the choice of having children. Is that only concerned with male and not with female. It should be mutual whether they want to have child or not and not just have forcibly sex and make her pregnant each month. Still in our society, if a wife talks to her husband about "condom", she is treated as shameless that how could even she think about something like "condom". How ridiculous is this, you want to have sex with her and do not even want to use protection in it. Its 21st century and still we feel shame talking about condom and sex, but why not to talk. Its a natural process so why to hide it. Atleast you should be free enough to discuss these things with your partner. And if your partner is not enough mature to talk about these things, them its better to leave him as he has no right to rape you every night and to put you in a situation that can ever threaten your life.

It I not just only about the partner, even in our families and everyone else in the society need to understand this that a girl is not meant to be commented upon or to see her just a toy to play with or as a weak person who will do whatever she would be asked to do whether she agrees for it or not.

For God’s sake, please change your views towards girls. Remember, a girl is the only source source who brings a new life to this earth and feed him. Don’t shatter her to the point that she would have to become “KAALI” to kill all the culprits.
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What is love ?

By: Vivek Sk

Taking care of someone with the deepest intentions you can ever have for someone. You keep worrying πŸ˜’Fussing about their health and well-being, all the time. You protect them and do everything in your power to save them from anything harmful in their vicinity. 

Basically, the one you love is your 'God'... And in no way you will let anyone hurt her/him, would you? 

You believe in their potential so much that your own potential looks likes a stepping stone for them,An expendable source, in other words. But the most important of all is your will to sacrifice anything and everything for them...

But with love comes the expectations.... After all the good can't exist without the evil. 😈<-> πŸ˜‡You start expecting that if you are putting in the efforts, if not rewarded , atleast they will notice your effort. (Even if it is for once.)

But when the expectations are not met, they become sour and turn poison ☠ in your head. Suddenly, there is a battle raging on in your mind: B/w the love you have for that person and the expectations that hurt your feelings.... 

I don't know who the hell said that good  πŸ˜‡ always wins because it is wrong....because it's the smartest guy πŸ˜ that takes away the win.

How you choose to respond depends on your nature.... If you are forgiving and kind and most important of all PATIENT, the light side in you (The love), it is able to hold on for an extended period of time, but due to no reciprocation of your efforts, dark side, the hate wins the war. 

If you are a person who has characteristics like being adamant or impatient, the one wanting results instantaneously, the dark side(the hate) wins outright because your persona complements your hate for that person. 

However by some miracle, the person starts to do, what you were expecting from them. They start responding to you in a manner similar to yours. My friend, this is the best case scenario as love will have won the war in your head & never in your lifetime will you find your soul more full of love and affection.

The venom of expectations can be dealt in many ways.

1. Wait it out and counter it with anti-bodies: The continuous exposure to situations like this makes you immune to feelings. The unmet expectations always hurt, but then you already knew that And this keeps on going till you are left insensitive to both the hate or love. You become the epitome of negativity, not caring much about self-confidence or self or anyone else, for that matter. You, in your own eyes are expendable and replaceable, unworthy of having anyone they want to have. This is the lowest anyone can go...

2. Treat it out with anti-venom...The people that matter in your life, convince you in a positive way to remove expectations or tell you good things about the person you are head over heels for, this helps you to confront the hate that keeps swelling up in your mind. But this doesn't end the battle, It just becomes a stalemate. And it heads towards an end, but very slowly and solely depending on the people you are trusting right now... 

3. Take a deep breath and focus in the moment you are living in....and let the person you hold so dear, The one who whom you consider your 'God', let them go. Both from memory and life....This ends the battle outright because the love and the hate for that person is dependent on that person...If you let go of everything related to that person, you defeat both the love for that person as well as hate for the same person with the serenity and peace within you. This way hurts because you have to change your thinking... But it doesn't leave any collateral damage of wasted time or unmet expectations. 

Personally, the 3rd point of view is the toughest to follow, for it requires the power of heart and mind to work together, and many are unable to do so, for they lack what is required. But believe me, if you are able to do it, you will have success in not only in this field, but in every aspect of life. You, my friend, would have understood how to accept reality for what it is. You would have learned to accept defeat, but still have the resources to get up again for round 2.

What else could matter, if you come out of a situation, better and more experienced, than before.
Love in truth makes you a better man, time and time

What's Your Opinion ? πŸ˜œπŸ˜Š
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Do you still remember those awkward days in schools during Exams ?


When a bright student tells the invigilator that question 4 has a problem, but you have already answered it...😳😜

When a fellow student asks for a graph paper, but you are finished and did not see anywhere where it was required...😧 😁😁

When the invigilator says jump question 6 we will rectify it later, but it was the question you enjoyed most when answering...😟 😱😲

When you see people busy using rulers and you are wondering what is going on...😣😫😫

When you hear your friends arguing after the exam whether the answer to question 5 was 35.5% or 36.5% and your answer was 1800 😩😏

The cream. When the other students asked for 4-5 additional answer sheets and You had two pages empty in the main answer sheet😨😰😱

See where you have reached in life inspite of those moments...things are not permanent...enjoy life! πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

Only for those who enjoyed their school lifeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Top 10 Dialogue of teacher
πŸ‘‰ If you are not interested then you may leave the class.
πŸ‘‰ This class is worse than a fish market.
πŸ‘‰ Are you here to waste your parents money?
πŸ‘‰ Tell me when you all have finished talking.
πŸ‘‰ Why are u laughing? Come here n tell us we'll also laugh.
πŸ‘‰ Do you think teachers are fools to teach you?
πŸ‘‰ Don't try to act oversmart with me.
πŸ‘‰ Why do u come to school when you don't want to study.
πŸ‘‰ The previous batch was 100 times better than yours.
πŸ‘‰ If you want to talk then u may get out from the class.

And the best one
πŸ‘‰ You yes you... I am talking to you only, don't look back.. πŸ˜„πŸ˜„
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I'm sure that the last line made all of you remember and smile .
This was our school days.
The best part was that we used to have the most innocent face to show at that point..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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The Ruthless Time



We come in this world at a scheduled time,
We go from the world at a scheduled time,
In between this, everything is not fine,
What a ruthless time.

No time for near ones,
No time for dear ones,
Everyone is just running behind a fake shine,
What a ruthless time.

One day everything will stop,
Me and my soul will be cropped,
That day you will be mine,
What a ruthless time.

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